I was recently told that some religious teachers say it's ok to hit your wife, gently. Nice eh? Just strike her like Thunderball?
Maybe the teachers think that men's needs are more so they give less.
Anyway (tongue in cheek alert) here's a video a local congregation put together video as they perform yet another a new Kingdom Melody. They got a great soloist on this. They sing this song when a new elder or MS is appointed.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2kZjRsFp30
(Tongue in cheek over)
We get told about the child abuse cover ups. But some years after I joined the congregation I found out there was some poor sister who had endured beatings from her husband. This man was an elder at the time. Eventually he ditched her and went off with another. She was a kind, hospitable and gentle person.